Sawantwadi is just a few km from Goa and is the most unlikely destination
to get married. But getting married in this quiet town is a simple and convenient
ritual. And it is perfectly legal for young and not-so-young couples to marry
the person they love and wish to spend rest of their lives. The ceremony is solemnized
speedily. The small town has become a favourite paradise for couples who wish
to get married peacefully and live happily thereafter. Sawantwadi happens to be
the former capital of the erstwhile kingdom of Sawantwadi. The town was the
seat of the royal family of Sawant Bhonsales and still retains some of the
erstwhile stately grandeur. It is at the foot of the hill called Narendra
dongar. Sawantwadi has been declared a heritage town and attracts good number
of tourists throughout the year.
Every year, when I travel towards
Sawantwadi and further on towards Goa, with a couple of days halt in Sawantwadi
at a relative’s house; during my routine walks towards the market area, I noticed
many Mangal Karyalays and would often wonder why a small place like this is
dotted with Mangal Karyalays. On delving deeper, I learnt that apart from
handicrafts, traditional Konkan food and fish, Sawantwadi is also known for
arranging and performing quick marriages legally, without much interference or
hassle. Recently a Sunday edition of a prominent newspaper revealed this other
social and colourful side of Sawantwadi. If you wish to get married without any
hassle, and that too legally; visit any Mangal Karyalay in Sawantwadi and they
will do the needful.
One can tie the knot quickly
without any fuss. The marriages are conducted under the Hindu Marriage Act, in
an Arya Samaj-type ceremony, taking care of the essential rituals and give you
the certificate the next day. This picturesque town on Maharastra’s coast in
Konkan is a haven for matrimonial alliances. Get married and walk out as man
and wife.
Though everything else happens
slow, just has any small sleepy town on the west coast of India, but marriages
are possibly one thing that happens quickly. And bring couples together in matrimony.
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Moti Talav |
Several Goan couples hop over to
Sawantwadi to avoid red tape and just tie the knot here in peace, to legally go
around Goa’s Civil Code, which applies to all Goans irrespective of religion
and covers birth and death, property and marriage. Interfaith marriages are
complicated under the code, and they involve joint ownership of property,
inheritance and assets; quick marriages are difficult, especially if one has to
do it urgently for going abroad, visa, job, etc. So the answer is to hop over
to Sawantwadi to avoid all these formalities, convert if need be and get married
in peace. The Mangal Karyalay does it for you at a reasonable cost.
Most of the Mangal Karyalays in
the town operate from a front yard, backyard or a porch. Colourful and faded plastic
chairs on a makeshift platform, is the stage for the bridal couple. The faded
decoration and festoons permanently hanging make the decorations for the quick marriage.
Though they don’t conduct fairy tale or dream weddings; for harried young
couples facing family or other barriers, it is a paradise. The Mangal Karyalay’s
proprietor or priest solemnize the Saptapati (7 Pheras in Hindu tradition) on
the premises and get the holy union registered from Gram Sevaks (with power to
register) in nearby villages.
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Sawantwadi Railway Sation |
These Mangal Karyalays draw
couples from Goa, Karnataka, Maharastra and even Rajasthan, UP and other
places. The Karyalays operate in a traditional way, they have no modern
promotional methods, no websites nor do they advertise, it is just through word
of mouth. The local people are friendly, no one asks questions here and the
best part is the whole town opens to lovers and couples in need. Most Karyalays
are scattered in the street and bylanes on one side of the lake with prominent
signboards. Sawantwadi is a small town which can be covered on foot and people
help you with directions.
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Rajwada - Palace |
I am told, at least one marriage
happens every day in Sawantwadi, it could be inter-caste or inter-religion too.
Sometimes even mixed-race marriages are performed here. The express service
comes at a price – Rs 5,000 to Rs10,000 depending upon your urgency and bargaining
power. The best part, it’s a single-window route to marriage with paperwork
ready the next day. It is said – marriages are made in heaven, but it is also
made in Sawantwadi!
At first look, Sawantwadi seems
like the unlikely town to offer solace to couples. There are no big or luxury
hotels or cafes. It appears to be a conservative place. Yet you find some
couples getting cosy on the lake wall or a temple nearby, sharing private
moments. Getting married is easy and the Mangal Karyalays do everything for
you, the rituals and the paperwork. And the couples lives happily thereafter!
MyPost:
Manifestation of Shiva
Khandoba, Martanda Bhairav or Malhari, is the Maratha
manifestation of Shiva mainly in the Deccan plateau, though he is identified
with Kartikeya and with Vishnu and also with sun. In Andhra, he is called
Mallikarjuna and in Karnataka, he is Mallanna. Jains have identified him with
Mallinath. Muslims who have a long history in Deccan region, identify him as
Mallu Khan.
He is visualized as riding a white horse brandishing a
sword. He wears a Maratha turban, has a magnificent moustache and beard.
Accompanying him on his horse is his main wife, Mhalsa.
Jejuri is a town close to Pune in Maharastra. It is
famous for the main temple devoted to Lord Khandoba
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Vellore Fort, Tamilnadu in India |
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